Let Our Girls Grow: A Powerful Message from Agona West MP, Ernestina Ofori Dangbey

 

In an era where young girls are increasingly facing pressure and exploitation from multiple angles, it’s refreshing—and necessary—to hear strong voices rise in their defense. On July 18, 2025, the Member of Parliament for Agona West, Hon. Ernestina Ofori Dangbey, delivered a statement that has resonated across Ghana and beyond.

Speaking boldly and directly, she said:

"Big men out there, please allow our little girls to grow. And to the girls, I plead you focus on your books. When you grow, no one will question how many times you get to do it."

This quote, which has now gone viral on social media and news platforms like GHOne TV, strikes at the heart of a deeply rooted issue in our society—the need to protect young girls from premature sexual advances, societal pressures, and systemic neglect, and to encourage them to prioritize their education and development.

A Cry for Protection and Accountability

The first part of her statement is a clear call-out to older men who prey on vulnerable young girls, often under the guise of "support" or "care." With the phrase “allow our little girls to grow,” Hon. Ofori Dangbey is not just pleading—she’s demanding a cultural shift. She’s urging society to stop romanticizing or tolerating predatory behavior and instead prioritize the safety, growth, and innocence of girls.

A Message of Hope and Focus for the Girls

Her second message is directed at the girls themselves: “focus on your books.” It’s a reminder that education is their most powerful tool. Amid distractions and temptations, she’s encouraging them to stay grounded, to remember their worth, and to know that their time will come.

And perhaps the most powerful part of her statement is this:

“When you grow, no one will question how many times you get to do it.”

This brutally honest line cuts deep. It speaks to the double standards in our society—how young girls are judged, shamed, and silenced for things that adults are celebrated for. Hon. Dangbey is telling girls: you deserve the right to grow into adulthood on your own terms, free from shame, fear, or exploitation.

A Leader Who Understands the Assignment

What makes this message even more impactful is the woman behind it. Hon. Ernestina Ofori Dangbey has always been known as a voice for the voiceless in her constituency. Her work in education, youth development, and women’s empowerment has been consistent. This latest statement is a continuation of her advocacy—not just with policy, but with truth.

She’s not mincing words. She’s not playing politics. She’s doing what real leaders do: standing up for what’s right, even if it makes some people uncomfortable.

Final Thoughts: Let the Girls Breathe, Let Them Dream

We live in a world where girls are often robbed of their childhoods and rushed into adulthood far too soon. Hon. Dangbey’s message is a powerful reminder that we have a collective duty to protect, nurture, and empower our girls—not just with words, but with actions.

Let’s amplify voices like hers. Let’s create safe spaces for girls to dream, grow, learn, and live freely.

Because when we protect our girls, we protect our future.